I have my beautiful baby Habana who will be 5 months on the 22nd of this month. I had to wean her which was an absolute nightmare and so scary for me. She screamed and wanted nothing to do with me. I was heartbroken, but I stuck it out. I read all the books and bought clickers and tried to train.......for about 10 minutes and she wasn't having it! SO, I let her be. I never raised my voice, I talked to her for hours and hours and told her how proud I was of her as she transitioned to pellets and other fruits and vegetables. I make an amazing spread for her breakfast and lunch. It took 5 weeks and she flew from her cage(she is clipped but can still move) and landed on my chest. She finally decided I was the coolest thing in the world and she has made my life amazing. I wouldn't recommend a Grey to most people. I am fortunate to be able to spend 10+ hours a day with her and if she could live on me she would. It is an enormous investment. Cages are $1000 and you need perches and play stands, toys, organic fresh food is expensive, vets are expensive and the most important part is you have to be patient and love them. Entertain them. I was a standup comic for 20 years and I love talking and am now a homebody! I am in a unique position to give her everything she needs and spend all day with her out of the cage playing and whistling and she has forced me to become patient and accept defeat with dignity! The joy she gives me outweighs the bad. But there are downsides. Throwing food, screaming if I am holding something she has never seen before, apprehension towards others and dogs and noises, firecrackers were just recently an issue. They need a routine and they need an owner who realizes you now have a companion more important than yourself! I had to furnish a second bedroom because she liked my room better. I happily gave her that. This amazing creature was the best decision I have made in a long time. But, you need to be honest with yourself before you buy one and be ready to dedicate your life to your companion. I wanted a Grey since I was 16, but I wasn't mature enough, I was never at home, I traveled and partied, didn't have my priorities in order etc. 28 years later I finally got one. I wanted one the whole time, but I knew I was too self absorbed to love anyone else. That is all gone now and I hope if you do adopt or buy a Grey that you honestly look in the mirror and ask yourself AM I READY? My parrot was born into retirement and she knows I would never hurt her and she has everything, but that trust doesn't happen overnight. Please do not get one until you are ready! I didn't get lucky with my baby! I sacrificed my life for hers and she is now my best friend!